Less advice. More action.

I know what it’s like to get stuck. My old man drank himself into the ground, took his own life at our home and I was heading the same direction. Anxiety. Late nights. Anything to avoid sitting with myself.

What I learned is we don’t need another pep talk or guru telling us to breathe. We need tools that actually work. We need support. We need change.

That’s what this counselling is. Less talk. More action. If you’re ready to move, I’m here.

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What I Do

You already know the drill. You’ve read the books. You’ve tried the tips. Maybe even done the therapy rounds. And yet here you are. Because knowing isn’t the same as doing.

That’s where I come in. I don’t sit here and nod while you circle the same stories. I help you move. Real action. Real change. Think training for your head and heart, not just talking it out. The goal isn’t to feel “better someday.” It’s to start living like it today.


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You don’t have to do this alone. If you’re ready, I’m here

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About Me

I’m Jack Loades. Counsellor, but more importantly, someone who’s lived the chaos. I grew up in it, lost my dad to suicide through alcohol, and spent years running laps in the weekend escape loop. Burnout. Anxiety. That hollow Monday morning feeling. I know it well.

I tried numbing. I tried ignoring. None of it worked. What did was action. Small, uncomfortable steps that slowly rebuilt my life from the inside out.

Now that’s what I help other people do. Not just talk about change, but live it. Get clear on what matters. Build the discipline to back it up. And create a life that actually feels good, not just on the highlights reel but every single day.

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Let’s get in touch.

Whether you have a question, want to book a session, or explore working together, I’d love to hear from you. I’ll get back to you as soon as I can.